How Ex-Gays Can Save Their Marriages After an Affair That Begin in a Gay Affirming Black Church

Marriages between men and women are allegedly ending in divorce in many of today's era of gay affirming black churches.   God has given SCR a solution to help save marriages that were once strong, but became weak after remaining in a church that changed to support gay marriages.   This is a sad era for today's average black church, because there has been division not only among preachers on the issues of gay marriage, but also men and women in matrimony.   Many married couples once loved each other, but when either party or both refused to leave their church that refused to denounce homosexuality, their marriage was possibly in trouble when a husband or a wife began dating the same sex.   This is not God's plan and pastors of gay affirming churches must realize God is not pleased with their support for homosexuality and no longer strengthening the bond of marriage between men and women.  Is it not fair for pastors to care more about supporting same sex couples and not heterosexual couples?  Absolutely not and this makes us wonder how any of those pastors of gay affirming churches could ever counsel a troubled marriage between a man and a woman, because of an affair that begin with another gay or lesbian church member.   They would most likely encourage divorce and support a man or woman to leave their marriage to marry the same sex in our opinion.

Those of you whom have had an affair with the same-sex with someone whom attends the same gay affirming church you and your wife belong to, if you truly love your husband or wife, you need to do the right thing and attend a church that opposes homosexuality, according to God's Word.   If the both of you joined a gay affirming church that supported gay couples, then you possibly were walking into an atmosphere that was a danger to your marriage.  If both of you really love each other, how could either of you attend a church that supports homosexuality in the first place?  However, if both of you already belong to a church that was once against homosexuality, but changed into a gay affirming ministry, then it would have been best for both of you agree to leave that church.  In Amos, 3:3, the Bible says, 'Can two walk together, except they be agreed?'  So even if both of you agreed to remain in that gay affirming church, but one of you did not agree with it in your heart, then God could no longer bless your marriage, because you had a conscious when you discovered your pastor was going to support homosexuality.  So, how could you expect your marriage to last?  How could you think your husband and wife would not be approached by someone of the same sex, if the pastor condoned gay and lesbian relationships?  In a gay affirming church, there is no anointing to protect you from that demonic spirit attacking your marriage, so it is very unfair to God for you to think your husband or wife would always remain with you and not follow those whom are attracted to the same sex in that ministry.  Therefore, you had already ruined your marriage when you did not consider speaking with your husband or wife about finding a church that opposes homosexuality.   Now that you and your spouse are about to go to divorce court, you maybe sorry about your affair, which may not have begun if it was not for the both of you attending a gay affirming church.


Are you the husband or wife whom had an affair with the same sex and desire to save your marriage?  Obviously, your spouse is the one divorcing you and you do not want that to happen. God's solution for your marriage to be saved, is simply for you to repent and ask for God's forgiveness.   You must admit you were wrong for attending that sort of church, so you should ask God to cleanse you from the demon of lust.   God wants to save your marriage, but you must be willing to admit you were wrong.   You know, many times the spirit of pride steps in and will try to control your spirit from humbling yourself before the almighty throne of God.   If you love your husband or wife, you must bow down on your knees and tell God you are sorry for having an affair.  Next step, contact and approach your spouse and tell him or her you repented to God and then, you are sorry for having an affair.   It does not matter if it was the opposite sex, we would advise you to do the same thing.   Let your spouse know, you desire to save your marriage, even if it means the both of you finding a church that opposes homosexuality.  Then, when you find that right church, make sure the pastor  preaches complete holiness and does not condone sin.   Then, you must find out if that pastor provides counseling for troubled marriages, if not, then that is the wrong church.   Many times, these mega churches are so big, they will advise you to go seek therapy, so that is a sure sign that you are in the wrong church.  You must find a pastor whom will provide time to counsel you and your wife, at least once a week.


Possibly, you are not the one whom had the affair and it was your husband or wife whom slept with the same sex, we advise you to pray and seek God.   We do not advise you to approach your spouse, unless he or she approaches you, because they must be willing to change and turn away from their sinful affair.   However, you may consider leaving that gay affirming church as a sign that you will not deal with your spouse's affair, then if your spouse follows you and does not desire to remain in that ministry with the person he or she slept with, it could be a sign that your spouse still loves you and desires to save the marriage.  By leaving that gay affirming church, you are clearly saying you are finished with your marriage, since your husband and wife refuses to stop their affair.  Then your spouse will know he must choose you or remain with the other person.  If your spouse never repents or apologizes for the affair that is not your problem and just because they may not admit they were wrong when you leave that church, it does not mean God still won't speak to his or her heart.  God can still give your cheating husband or wife  a mind to repent and come back to you, but it  must be his or her choice without your persuasion, because they must show they do not want to be in a gay or lesbian relationship.

We both advise both of you to spend time in prayer before getting a divorce, but you never will have any peace while your husband or wife is in a gay relationship. All sorts of Sexually Transmitted Diseases have never ceased and it pays to be holy and righteous.  In the black church, it seems like more pastors of gay affirming churches would be more cautious and protect the sanctity of marriage between men and women, after realizing many black men and black women lost their lives to AIDS, because possibly a husband or wife slept with someone whom had the disease.

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Queens NY School Prohibits Fifth-Grader From Giving Speech On Same-Sex Marriage: Black Churches Should Start Strategic Plan to Teach Children Not To Focus on Gay Issues

You know, it is extremely sad that many young children like this fifth-grader Kameron Slade are getting involved with homosexual issues.   These kids are too young to know about same sex issues and too innocent to speak out on such issues in our opinion.   Not long ago, Slade was in his mother's womb and God's plan for his life was not to affirm gay issues, but to enjoy life as a child.  No child should have the thought of same sex issues on their minds, they should be focusing on playing with other children, studying and learning about God, not sex or marriage equality.   This alleged evil spirit is really strange and spreading across our land like a disease.   Kameron Slade creating a speech on same sex marriage is not the only thing that should alarm the body of Christ, but also the young children whom are requesting to have a sex change.  We say it is time for the black church to teach young children not to focus on issues that should be for grown-ups.   Furthermore, we thank God this school in Queens, N. Y. has prohibited this child from giving this speech.

Unfortunately, one of the main reasons why young black kids could be into gay and lesbian issues, is possibly because in their minds we have first black president, when in fact, President Obama has allegedly considered gay issues more than the struggles of the black community.   Possibly, they have been adopted by gay parents or have relatives whom are supposedly in a gay marriage.   Do you see how Satan has been trying to take over the minds of our young (black) children?  They are coming into this world discussing what many of us adults would not have ever thought about as children.   As you can see, it does not seem like there is much discipline in the homes, because if it was, we would not hear of young children requesting to change their gender.   

We question his mother whom did not want to be identified on the news.  What type of mothers today are allowing their children to focus on mature issues such as marriage equality?    She allegedly stated she was very upset that her son was prohibited from reading his speech.  However, God gets the glory, because all of the parents, except for one agreed with the school principle.  So, there is still hope to save our children.   This teaches us that we need to pray that God only allows virtuous mothers to bore children, only those whom fear God.  No mother whom opposes God's commandments should ever raise children, because their minds could be allegedly damaged before they are grown.

Imagine how God feels when Kameron Slade got press coverage as a young kid wanting so bad to give a speech about marriage equality.  What bothers God should irritate us, if not, then you must now be a child of God.  This young boy reading off this speech on the news, is something we would have never seen if President George Bush was still in office.   Therefore, this is why the black church whom is not a gay affirming ministry should create classes to teach young children to focus on school work and not on sexual issues.   Teach them how to read the Bible and spend time in prayer with God.   There needs to be strategic programs to teach children how to be kids.  It is the body of Christ responsibility to began creating programs to save our children from homosexuality.  Let us protect their young minds and spirits, they will grow up to be righteous men and women of God.

If you want to see the video of Kameron Slade, go here at NY1.com, but we will not post it here, for it is disrespectful to God. 




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Has The Civil Rights Movement Been HIJACKED by LGBT? [VIDEO]

Many believe LGBT activists have tried to hijack the struggle and generations of bondage and slavery for their right to marry the same sex. The same people also feel being African American was a privilege and a blessing from God yet a struggle to enjoy it in American society. They say it does not compare to the rights that gays and lesbians are fighting for today. God ordained black skin but did not ordain homosexuality or gay marriages.

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Response To Article About Bishop T. D. Jakes and President Obama Leading The Way To Victory? Lost Souls in the Black Church

In response to a reader's comment about our previous article, 'Can We Expect Bishop T. D. Jakes To Publicly Oppose President Barack Obama's Same-Sex Marriage Agenda?  If Not, The Black Church Should Recognize Him as an Alleged False Prophet'.  We refuse to go to hell for black folks or any other race, so we will continue to tell the truth.  It is so sad, that this reader resides in the same state as a very powerful minister whom is so courageous to preach against same-sex marriage, Pastor Patrick L. Wooden.  This unidentified resident of Greenville, N. C. read our article and think these men are alright, having a good time and leading people to victory.  His soul is so out of touch with God, he does not even realize they both are allegedly leading many souls into eternal hell and damnation in our opinion.  

Dear SCR readers, the Bible clearly states how God feels about homosexuality.   It is not cruel, His expectations are out of love, because He hates sin and so do we.   Any child of God whom has been washed by the blood of the Lamb recognizes that this is not a civil rights issue, this is an issue of demonic forces rising up against God.  This is no time for African Americans to brush it off and think it is so cute for Bishop T. D. Jakes to be a cotton ball Christian in the presence of President Obama.  Respectively, neither men are leading people to victory, according to God's Word, because homosexuality is a sin, those whom would rather think of both men as heroes for the black race are very foolish, because many souls whom remain gullible will end up in the lake of fire, where it never quenches.


Time and time again, we have given you testimonies about how Minister Mary K. Baxter was one of the saints of God whom was chosen by Jesus Christ to go on a tour to hell.  She saw millions of skeletal bones reaching out for Jesus to save them from the flames.  They were crying and screaming to escape torment, these were not just homosexuals, but also gullible Christians and even ministers whom were afraid to obey God's voice, but rather be respected by mankind.   They were in hell and could not escape.   


We are clearly speaking to followers in the black church, it is time for you to stop glorifying these celebrity preachers like Bishop T. D. Jakes and glorify God.  God is calling for the black church to return to complete holiness.   When Jesus took Mary K. Baxter to hell and even the teen, Angelica Zambrano, she noticed many Christians were there for living double lives.   So, dear brothers and sisters of the black church, if you are double-minded, that is, saying you are a Christian, but remaining quiet about this issue while supporting President Barack Obama, you are simply living a double life.   You cannot say you love God and truly saved, but you congratulate to men, because they both are leading people to victory.   If you are that blinded, you are going to be led by demonic powers into hell, because neither individual is leading this nation to victory.  According to God's Word and Minister Mary K. Baxter's testimony, there was a reserved lake of fire for homosexuals whom once lived on earth.   They were screaming for Minister Baxter to tell their relatives not to go there.   So now, tell us Bishop T. D. Jakes and President Obama are leading people to victory.

Even if you are a member of a black church and they teach about unity, if certain people are not in agreement with God's Word that opposes homosexuality, you should not unite with them.  It is time for the black church to realize the only church that will be in heaven is not necessarily the black church, but only the church of pure holiness full of righteous souls of all races.  Let go of that black pride and turn to Jesus Christ before it is everlasting too late.  We all are just now finding out, it does not matter what race a president is, all that matters is if he believes in God's Word that condemns sin, including homosexuality.

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Can We Expect Bishop T. D. Jakes To Publicly Oppose President Barack Obama's Same-Sex Marriage Agenda? If Not, The Black Church Should Recognize Him as an Alleged False Prophet

As we recall, Bishop T. D. Jakes has been in the spotlight with President Barack Obama and we feel he knew about his support for gays and lesbians all along.  Many of us were already upset about President Obama's prior support for the gay and lesbian community and we are surprised many black churches are finally upset about his decision.   This same-sex marriage public announcement is really nothing new, because we were already alarmed about previous news that informed us that he allegedly wanted homosexuals to be able to marry in the military.   Therefore, President Obama already had us praying and Bishop T. D. Jakes should have denounced his support for gays and lesbians, when we all learned about it.  Bishop T. D. Jakes is President Barack Obama's spiritual adviser, according to the Apostolic Friends Forum and we agree with the posts, he should resign from his position and no longer be President Barack Obama's spiritual adviser, if he agrees with God's Word that opposes homosexuality.


Possibly, this news of Bishop T. D. Jakes not yet publicly denouncing President Barack Obama could be a clear sign he is not called to preach.  He maybe gifted as movie producer, but to preach, absolutely not.  Because any real man or woman of God will oppose sin before the nation without shame without hesitation.   If any minister is ashamed of God's Word, then they are ashamed of Jesus Christ.  In Mark 8:38: 'Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.'   This simply means that although, we may receive a good sermon here or there from Bishop T. D. Jakes or any of the other celebrity preachers in the black church, he and none of the others may not be living what they preach, they are just what they are called, celebrity preachers.  In fact, what did the Bible tell us about false prophets in sheep's clothing?   In Matthew 7:15, 'Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.'  It is so scary, we are seeing a lot of these preachers in the black church expecting a huge following to yet sit in their pews, generously give their tithes and offerings that supports their lavish lifestyles, but they have not yet publicly denounced sin before the nation.  Children of God, we cannot expect of these celebrity pastors to publicly denounce the President of the United States if they were silent after he previously announced his support for gays and lesbians to marry in the military.  Furthermore, we think many of these pastors in the black church are very gullible, because if many of them have been mainly preaching the prosperity gospel for the past 20 years, they will be less likely to publicly denounce President Barack Obama's same-sex marriage agenda and preach against homosexuality.  Their anointing seems to have gone, they do not seem to have it like many black preachers back in the day before the 1990's decade.   They failed to recognize that always preaching about having nice homes, taking extravagant trips and driving Bentleys could never prepare them for such an evil time as this.  Many of these preachers whom have changed their churches into multimillion dollar corporations are just motivational speakers whom have turned God's House out into a place for capitol gain.  The black church has lost its' anointing and that same anointing does not just heal diseases and raises the dead, but it also shakes up demons whom rise up against the body of Christ, no matter who they are.   The Holy Ghost is the One whom is supposed to be guiding these preachers of any race to take authority and bind demonic forces, but after so many years of converting the majority of black churches into mega ministries, they have lost that power.


If Bishop T. D. Jakes, along with other well known preachers within the black church never publicly denounce President Barack Obama's same-sex marriage agenda, we as the true children of God must yet fast and pray.  We must continue to denounce sin while winning souls to Jesus Christ.   We cannot put our confidence in man, because as our Word tells us, they will fail us and in this case we cannot expect to ever trust alleged false prophets just because of their prominent status. In Philippians 3:3, it says: 'For we are the circumcision, which worship God in the spirit, and rejoice in Christ Jesus, and have no confidence in the flesh.'   Let us just recognize there are no weak men or women in the Kingdom of God and if these preachers in the black church or any other church refuse to publicly denounce President Barack Obama's support for same-sex marriage, then we must no longer support their ministries nor pay any attention to their sermons, but just pray for them.




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Watch Video: Christian Woman Denies Same-Sex Couple Wedding Cake

Victoria Childress who runs her own cake business from home politely sat this lesbian couple down and informed them of her Christian values.  Janelle Sievers claims she replied she understood, but she and her disappointed partner, Trina Vodraska say they were shocked by Childress' denial to bake their wedding cake.   We ask you, doesn't God approve of Victoria Childress boldness for Jesus Christ in these last and evil days?  We assure, God does not see this as discrimination, but He views it as victory within the Kingdom of God.   Angels in heaven are rejoicing right now, because of Victoria Childress bold courage to deny the demonic force of homosexuality.   This lesbian couple should not be so upset about Victoria Childress' honesty, but they should be grateful that Jesus Christ is using her to capture them from Satan's territory.

On the video, Trina Vodraska says she did not go there to hear Jesus loved her.  She and her partner went to order a wedding cake.   Whether they went there to hear those words or not, Jesus knew His child Victoria Childress would be standing up for righteousness without fear and with utmost courage.   Jesus Christ knew He could trust her to inform and remind them of His love for them, but it is wrong for same-sex partners to be married like man and woman.   They were in for the shock of their life, but little do they both realize God was using Victoria Childress to save them from the depths of hell and damnation.   In these last and evil days, God is looking for true saints like Victoria Childress to spread the message of salvation and it is not this false religion of gospel of Inclusion, which claims there is no hell and you can live how you want to live.  The real message of salvation is calling sinners of all sorts into repentance.   Jesus Christ loves homosexuals, but He does not like their attraction to each other, as our Bible lets us know.   Therefore, both of these women received a blessing and unfortunately they do not even know it.

One of the things homosexuals of today do not realize is this, their denied rights is not a civil rights issue, but it is an issue that has been a battle between God and Satan since biblical times.   Let us assure you, Satan cannot win and He will not have victory over souls whom belong to God.   Victoria Childress is warrior for Jesus Christ and she is only doing what Jesus Christ expects and that is, to save souls from the pit of eternal hell and damnation.

Victoria Childress is the owner of Victoria's Cake Cottage in Des Moines,  Iowa.  We of Sanctified Church Revolution wish her the best and pray for the same sex couple.

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Biblical Scriptures Against Homosexuality

• 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 - "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God."

• Leviticus 18:22 - "Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable."

• Leviticus 20:13 - "If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads."

• Romans 1:26-27 - "Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion."  

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